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		<title>By: Criticism can really effect our lives in so many ways</title>
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		<dc:creator>Criticism can really effect our lives in so many ways</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Sep 2011 14:37:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] life with a completely new outlook. One that is full of promise rather than vile negative thoughts.We often blame ourselves but are we really to blame? This sort of conditioning is generally way out ...wish we were able to leave food on our plate? We call this conditioning and conditioning happens in [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] life with a completely new outlook. One that is full of promise rather than vile negative thoughts.We often blame ourselves but are we really to blame? This sort of conditioning is generally way out &#8230;wish we were able to leave food on our plate? We call this conditioning and conditioning happens in [...]</p>
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		<title>By: How failures can make you smile &#124; Reason-4-Smile Weblog</title>
		<link>http://confident1.com/fear-of-failure/comment-page-1#comment-8093</link>
		<dc:creator>How failures can make you smile &#124; Reason-4-Smile Weblog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Nov 2010 12:05:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Beyond meaning&#8230; I do not believe in failure. It is not failure if you enjoyed the process. ~Oprah Winfrey via Confident1 (Fear of Failure) [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Keys to Overcome Fear of Failure</title>
		<link>http://confident1.com/fear-of-failure/comment-page-1#comment-7712</link>
		<dc:creator>Keys to Overcome Fear of Failure</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 13:46:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You might want to fail, you&#039;ll fail, it is a part of the building methods, a part of the way we mankind find out, and the only way we significantly learn. Failure is merely accomplishing a thing the wrong way. We may &#039;ve got nine variables appropriate however the 10th absolutely wrong leading to our plan failing. In this way you can actually cope with the fear of failure.
.-= Keys to Overcome Fear of Failure&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Comment by&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You might want to fail, you&#8217;ll fail, it is a part of the building methods, a part of the way we mankind find out, and the only way we significantly learn. Failure is merely accomplishing a thing the wrong way. We may &#8216;ve got nine variables appropriate however the 10th absolutely wrong leading to our plan failing. In this way you can actually cope with the fear of failure.<br />
.-= Keys to Overcome Fear of Failure&#180;s last blog ..<a href="" rel="nofollow">Comment by</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: VEDA</title>
		<link>http://confident1.com/fear-of-failure/comment-page-1#comment-6568</link>
		<dc:creator>VEDA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 03:39:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually - No act of a human is a failure if that has helped the doer &#039;learn something new&#039;  or  &#039;motivate to correct oneself&#039; .. Rightly seen it is the failure that brings out our personal &#039;failings&#039;. 
It is one of those &#039;Sweet are the uses of Adversity&#039; instances. 

But -  If a person is too egoistic to accept and even own his-her failures - then they are sure to &#039;succumb&#039; to their failures. And - it takes them Nowhere !</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually &#8211; No act of a human is a failure if that has helped the doer &#8216;learn something new&#8217;  or  &#8216;motivate to correct oneself&#8217; .. Rightly seen it is the failure that brings out our personal &#8216;failings&#8217;.<br />
It is one of those &#8216;Sweet are the uses of Adversity&#8217; instances. </p>
<p>But &#8211;  If a person is too egoistic to accept and even own his-her failures &#8211; then they are sure to &#8216;succumb&#8217; to their failures. And &#8211; it takes them Nowhere !</p>
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		<title>By: Daniel McBill</title>
		<link>http://confident1.com/fear-of-failure/comment-page-1#comment-6176</link>
		<dc:creator>Daniel McBill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 01:02:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here is my favorite instant technique to overcome your fear:

1.	Think of a situation that you are afraid of. You have to be very specific about it. Like &quot;I’m afraid to ask my boss for a raise.&quot;
2.	Imagine the worst outcome possible. I mean the very worst outcome. (&quot;Ex: You would be fired because you dared to ask for a raise and you could never get a job again.&quot;) What are the real chances for that outcome? Almost zero I guess.
3.	Imagine a possible failure. A real one. What could you learn from it? Would your life change dramatically if you would fail? What would be the experience for you?
4.	Ask yourself the following question: Which is more painful? The FEAR to act or having every day the same FRUSTRATION if you don’t act.
5.	Imagine the best outcome. See yourself coming out successful from the situation. Close your eyes and imagine how would you look like, how would your environment look like and how would you feel inside.
6.	Burn the bridge behind you and TAKE ACTION! You have to do something, which makes it impossible for you to turn back. You have to face your fear. (&quot;Ex: Tell your boss that you want a private meeting with him.&quot;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is my favorite instant technique to overcome your fear:</p>
<p>1.	Think of a situation that you are afraid of. You have to be very specific about it. Like &#8220;I’m afraid to ask my boss for a raise.&#8221;<br />
2.	Imagine the worst outcome possible. I mean the very worst outcome. (&#8220;Ex: You would be fired because you dared to ask for a raise and you could never get a job again.&#8221;) What are the real chances for that outcome? Almost zero I guess.<br />
3.	Imagine a possible failure. A real one. What could you learn from it? Would your life change dramatically if you would fail? What would be the experience for you?<br />
4.	Ask yourself the following question: Which is more painful? The FEAR to act or having every day the same FRUSTRATION if you don’t act.<br />
5.	Imagine the best outcome. See yourself coming out successful from the situation. Close your eyes and imagine how would you look like, how would your environment look like and how would you feel inside.<br />
6.	Burn the bridge behind you and TAKE ACTION! You have to do something, which makes it impossible for you to turn back. You have to face your fear. (&#8220;Ex: Tell your boss that you want a private meeting with him.&#8221;)</p>
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		<title>By: mercola</title>
		<link>http://confident1.com/fear-of-failure/comment-page-1#comment-6067</link>
		<dc:creator>mercola</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 10:43:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A very well written article.. and a nice message too. facing your fear is very hard mainly because, well it&#039;s frightening. But once that is done, whether you pass or fail, facing other fears will be much easier.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A very well written article.. and a nice message too. facing your fear is very hard mainly because, well it&#8217;s frightening. But once that is done, whether you pass or fail, facing other fears will be much easier.</p>
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		<title>By: Land Projects UK</title>
		<link>http://confident1.com/fear-of-failure/comment-page-1#comment-5969</link>
		<dc:creator>Land Projects UK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 03:37:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for that very nice post,  very useful 
thoughts  you&#039;ve share. Failure makes the person more stronger.  Whether we like it or not, failure will come in our life, so it&#039;s up to us on how we will manage it.

&lt;em&gt;Land Projects UK&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://landprojectsuk.blogspot.com/2008/05/is-commercial-property-investment-good.html&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Is Commercial Property Investment A Good Choice?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for that very nice post,  very useful<br />
thoughts  you&#8217;ve share. Failure makes the person more stronger.  Whether we like it or not, failure will come in our life, so it&#8217;s up to us on how we will manage it.</p>
<p><em>Land Projects UK&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://landprojectsuk.blogspot.com/2008/05/is-commercial-property-investment-good.html' rel="nofollow">Is Commercial Property Investment A Good Choice?</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Speeding Links For Search For Blogging Readers &#124; www.searchforblogging.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Speeding Links For Search For Blogging Readers &#124; www.searchforblogging.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 07:47:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Do you know how to Overcome a Fear of Failure? [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Personal Development by TRCoach</title>
		<link>http://confident1.com/fear-of-failure/comment-page-1#comment-5963</link>
		<dc:creator>Personal Development by TRCoach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 22:05:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of T. Harv Ecker&#039;s (Secret of the Millionaire Mind) quotes is &quot; If you want to expand your money zone you MUST be willing to stretch the boundaries of your Comfort Zone.&quot;  
My regrets have been things I haven&#039;t done, rather than what I have done.
Thanks, Tom

&lt;em&gt;Personal Development by TRCoach&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://trcoach.com/2008/05/26/what-is-rsshugger/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;What is rssHugger?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of T. Harv Ecker&#8217;s (Secret of the Millionaire Mind) quotes is &#8221; If you want to expand your money zone you MUST be willing to stretch the boundaries of your Comfort Zone.&#8221;<br />
My regrets have been things I haven&#8217;t done, rather than what I have done.<br />
Thanks, Tom</p>
<p><em>Personal Development by TRCoach&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://trcoach.com/2008/05/26/what-is-rsshugger/' rel="nofollow">What is rssHugger?</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Robert A. Henru</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert A. Henru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 09:32:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the motivational message David!
Failure is an event, not a person. That&#039;s what Zig Ziglar said.

Thanks!
Robert

&lt;em&gt;Robert A. Henru&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reason4smile/~3/298422631/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to break religious attitudes and learn from anyone&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the motivational message David!<br />
Failure is an event, not a person. That&#8217;s what Zig Ziglar said.</p>
<p>Thanks!<br />
Robert</p>
<p><em>Robert A. Henru&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reason4smile/~3/298422631/' rel="nofollow">How to break religious attitudes and learn from anyone</a></em></p>
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