I have now put 10 blogs into the category of assertiveness - including all the saying “no” blogs and the bill of rights. But I have yet to define assertiveness, or say why it is so important for having great self confidence.
The best definition I can find, says being assertive means:-
“expressing my rights and acknowledging others’ rights. It doesn’t guarantee I’ll get what I want - but it does guarantee that I’ve expressed myself and, therefore, maintained my integrity. It’s saying what I want/feel, voicing my opinion/saying no, being able to negotiate the best solution for all.”
I have no idea who to attribute that quote to - its on a handout I have had for years. Other definitions separate out the two components - behavior and communication. But I like the definition above because another way of describing assertiveness is “confident communication“.
So if you are building self confidence, its important to review how you communicate and whether you are generally assertive - rather than passive, aggressive or manipulative.
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1 Perhaps Britney should manage England? // Feb 9, 2008 at 11:37 pm
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